If you and your new spouse are members of the LGBTQ+ community and want a thoroughly enjoyable post-wedding getaway, choosing an LGBT-friendly honeymoon destination is essential. Spending your gay honeymoon in such safe spaces is a great way to celebrate your love and have your identities respected.
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13 Best Honeymoon Destinations For LGBTQ+ Couples
First off, congratulations on your nuptials! Love has no boundaries. For gay and lesbian couples (or any other members of the LGBTQ+ community), having a romantic getaway in a place that welcomes them with open arms is one of the best things to experience as newlyweds.
The good news is that many countries have already made significant strides in protecting LGBTQ+ rights. Here are some of the most popular destination recommendations to check out.
San Francisco City, USA
San Francisco is easily one of the best gay honeymoon destinations in the US. Affectionately called the country’s gay capital, it boasts a progressive mindset that gay couples who are newlyweds will surely enjoy.
The Castro District, in particular, has gay bars and rainbow flag-decorated shops for a safe, vibrant nightlife and daytime exploration. If you want to soak in an artistic and cultural atmosphere, the South of Market (SoMa) neighborhood is for you. It has many important establishments, including the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art.
A trip to this city won’t be complete without taking some snaps at the Golden Gate Bridge, the Palace of Fine Arts, and in front of the Painted Lady houses.
Where to stay: Castro District (near the Harvey Milk Plaza and Castro Theatre)
When to go: September to November
How to arrive: Fly into the San Francisco International Airport and then take a shuttle, bus, or private vehicle to your destination. The city is around 30 minutes away from the airport.
Honolulu, Hawaii, USA
Dreaming of a laid-back getaway? In the Aloha State of Hawaii, Honolulu is another US territory to consider for a gay-friendly honeymoon. Waikiki, located on the island of O’ahu, is an iconic neighborhood known for its stunning beaches and lively, inclusive atmosphere.
Stroll around Kalakaua Avenue and check out boutique shops and fabulous restaurants. If you stay at a beachfront hotel, you’ll get front-row access to the island’s breathtaking views of the Pacific Ocean. But don’t just savor the views — go on exciting water adventures or even take a surfing lesson together.
For a challenging yet fulfilling hike, visit the Diamond Head State Monument near Waikiki’s eastern edge. If you’re heading there in October, you can also participate in Maui Pride, held annually, usually during the first weekend of the month.
Where to stay: Waikiki, which is near Waikiki Beach, Waikiki Aquarium, and Honolulu Zoo
When to go: April to May, September to October
How to arrive: To get to Waikiki, fly into the Daniel K. Inouye International Airport. You can easily arrange transportation from the airport to your hotel in Waikiki via shuttle services, buses, or private vehicles. The travel usually takes between 20 and 30 minutes.
Toronto, Canada
Host to one of the biggest pride parades that many LGBTQ+ couples take part in, Toronto is the dynamic and inclusive honeymoon spot you’re looking for near the US. At the heart of downtown Toronto, you’ll find Church-Wellesley Village, which brims with cafes, restaurants, and hip nightclubs where LGBTQ+ people are welcome.
Also, be sure to visit the CN Tower with your loved one to reward yourselves with magnificent panoramic views of the cosmopolitan area. Until 2007, it was the tallest building globally at 553 meters. While there, dine at the revolving 360 Restaurant (make a reservation first) and enjoy a unique dining experience.
If you want to go back in time, visit Casa Loma, a castle erected in the 1800s. For an artistic trip, head to the Distillery District.
Where to stay: Church-Wellesley Village, also known as Toronto’s gay district, near Maple Leaf Gardens and CAA Theatre
When to go: May to September
How to arrive: Arrive in Toronto via Toronto Pearson International Airport, and from there, use shuttles, buses, or private automobiles to reach your selected location in the city. The travel time from the airport to Church-Wellesley Village takes around 30 minutes.
Copenhagen, Denmark
Want a trip to Europe for your post-nuptials vacation? Look no further than Denmark, the first-ever country to legalize same-sex unions through registered partnerships in 1989. In 2012, they also legalized gay marriage. Copenhagen, the capital city, has a great LGBTQ+ scene on top of its breathtaking architecture and culinary world.
In this European metropolis, you can easily find world-class, Michelin-starred restaurants and immersive yourselves in unique gastronomic journeys. If you want to taste Danish delicacies at a lower price, wander around the city’s food markets. There is also a range of luxury hotels and inexpensive accommodations to suit your budget.
For gay couples, the place to be is the Vesterbro district, which also happens to be the hippest neighborhood in town. A former red-light district, it now teems with gay clubs, bars, and other inclusive spaces. And speaking of gay bars — Denmark is also home to one of the oldest, if not the oldest gay bar in the globe: Centralhjørnet.
Where to stay: Vesterbro District is near the Copenhagen Central Station, Bryggebroen, and Øksnehallen (an exhibition space)
When to go: May to September
How to arrive: Fly into Copenhagen Airport, Kastrup (CPH), located about 8 kilometers from the city center. You may easily reach your location from the airport via shuttle, rail, or cab, which takes around 15 minutes.
Reykjavík, Iceland
One of the most welcoming places for same-sex couples, Iceland offers the setting for a perfect honeymoon under dreamy cosmic lights. The country had an openly gay Prime Minister lead the government in 2009, showcasing its strong support for the community.
The capital city of Reykjavik offers breathtaking landscapes, lava caves, majestic waterfalls, and stunning hot springs. A popular excursion involves going to the Golden Circle, home to the Thingvellir National Park, the Geysir Geothermal Area, and the Gullfoss Waterfall.
The heart of gay travel in the country lies in downtown Reykjavik. The Miðborg and Laugavegu neighborhoods will give you access to gay-friendly establishments and dining hubs. Going to Kiki Queer Bar and doing a private LGBTQ+ city walk tour is a great experience. Meanwhile, seeing the aurora borealis in person will be the guaranteed highlight of your post-wedding trip.
Where to stay: Miðborg, which is near Hallgrimskirkja Catherdral and the Harpa Reykjavik Concert Hall and Conference Centre
When to go: September to April (this is the best time to see the Northern Lights)
How to arrive: The Keflavík International Airport is about 45 minutes from downtown Reykjavik. You can reach your destination from the airport through shuttle buses, private shuttles, or rental cars.
Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
Rio de Janeiro is the second-most-populous city in Brazil, and this southeastern coastal area offers LGBT honeymoons that queer newlyweds will surely remember for a long time. Offering an uber-romantic experience, the city has jaw-dropping beaches, lively nightlife, and world-famous landmarks — including the Christ the Redeemer statue at Corcovado Mountain.
Tijuca National Park should be on your itinerary if you want to explore lush forests. Believed to be the largest urban forest on the planet, it offers hiking trails and scenic viewpoints. To soak up the culture, you and your partner are welcome to take part in vibrant celebrations, such as the Carnaval festivities that usually take place in February.
The neighborhoods of Ipanema and Copacabana have bustling LGBTQ+ scenes, boasting hubs and establishments where same-sex couples can truly be proud of their love.
Where to stay: Ipanema (famous landmarks include Estátua de Tom Jobim and Parque Garota de Ipanema) or Copacabana (Avenida 6 de Agosto, Horca del Inca, and Isla del Sol)
When to go: December to March
How to arrive: Fly into the Galeo International Airport (GIG) and get to your destination using a shuttle, bus, or private automobile. You can reach Ipanema or Copacabana in an average of 40 minutes.
Puerto Vallarta, Mexico
Puerto Vallarta on Mexico’s Pacific coast is one of the most accessible queer-friendly honeymoon destinations to access from the US. Beyond its picturesque beaches, this city — Zona Romantica in downtown’s southern area, specifically — welcomes LGBTQ couples with an unmistakable cordial atmosphere.
You and your new spouse can try different activities during your stay in this area. You can take a leisurely walk along the malecon (boardwalk), soak up the sun on pristine beaches, or explore the Old Town. If you want to taste Mexican coffee, head to Cafe Street to mingle with friendly local cafe owners.
Zona Romantica also comes alive with its lively evening scene, courtesy of its clubs and bars.
Where to stay: Zona Romantica, which is near Los Muertos Beach and Olas Atlas Saturday Market
When to go: November to April
How to arrive: Puerto Vallarta’s main airport is the Licenciado Gustavo Díaz Ordaz International, 20 to 30 minutes from Zona Romantica. From the airport, your transportation choices include shuttles, buses, taxis, and private vehicles for rent.
Gustavia, St. Barts, Caribbean
The Caribbean region is a popular spot for destination weddings and honeymoons. However, not all Caribbean islands are gay-friendly. One of the exceptions is St. Barts. There aren’t explicitly gay bars, but some are owned by gay couples and welcome everyone.
Gifted with white sand beaches and crystal-clear turquoise waters, St. Barts is one of those tropical havens that will give you an exclusive atmosphere. Gay couples seeking seclusion, relaxation, and indulgence will be attracted to its accommodations ranging from overwater bungalows and beachfront resorts (complete with spa treatments) to more inexpensive Airbnb rentals.
The capital, Gustavia, has chic shops and galleries to explore. Fort Gustave is a must-visit — it’s a historical place that also gives you some of the island’s best views. You can also visit Shell Beach and lounge by the mesmerizing coastline of this Caribbean gem. You can visit the Wall House Museum and Vieux Clocher for a touch of history.
Where to stay: City center, which is a few minutes walk to Shell Beach and Saint-Jean Beach
When to go: November to April
How to arrive: Fly into Gustaf III Airport (also known as St. Barts Airport or St. Jean Airport), a convenient eight-minute drive from Gustavia. Your transport options include a shuttle, private car, or taxi.
Bora Bora, French Polynesia
Want a tropical destination for your honeymoon? Gay marriage is legal in all 118 Tahitian Islands. Bora Bora has an inclusive and welcoming community. This South Pacific island is famous for its over-the-water bungalows, letting you wake up to gorgeous beach views.
As for activities, there are various water sports you can try, including snorkeling, island hopping, and kitesurfing. Or you can just simply while away at its white sand beaches. Want some more adventure? Do a 4×4 tour or hike Mount Otemanu.
If you want to expand your South Pacific getaway, the nearby Tahiti also has a cordial atmosphere for gay couples. Note that the Maldives is not the best place to choose if you and your new spouse are members of the queer community.
Where to stay: Matira (near Leopard Rays Trench and Mount Otemanu) or Vaitape (near Paroisse Saint Pierre-Celestin Church)
When to go: May to October
How to arrive: From the US, fly into Tahiti and book a local flight to Motu Mute or Bora Bora Airport, about 30 to 40 minutes away from Matira or Viatape.
Mykonos, Greece
One of the most iconic Greek Islands, Mykonos is a Mediterranean paradise for honeymooners, including gay newlyweds. This island offers an effortless mix of stunning landscapes, a vibrant atmosphere, and a rich cultural heritage. One of its most iconic views is the charming whitewashed buildings.
Mykonos (also called Chora) boasts narrow streets with galleries, boutique shops, and hip bars. If you want to see pops of color, head to Little Venice, home to vibrant houses perched above turquoise waters. On any Greek Island, you must indulge in the traditional cuisine and dine at local tavernas.
You can also visit the neighboring island of Santorini and experience a serene escape, taste local wines, and explore volcanic beaches.
Where to stay: Mykonos Town (nearby landmarks include the Windmills of Mykonos, Little Venice, and the Monastery of Paleokastro)
When to go: June to September
How to arrive: Fly into the Mykonos Island National Airport. In just a 10-minute drive or ride (by bus or shuttle), you can reach Mykonos Town.
Cape Town, South Africa
Cape Town, whose skyline is dominated by the ever-stunning Table Mountain, is a captivating South African city. If you and your partner want an African honeymoon, this is one of the best LGBT-friendly honeymoon destinations on the continent.
This tourist spot is ultra-vibrant, and several activities can keep you and your loved one busy. Take a cable car ride to the peak of Table Mountain and breathe in the best views of the city and coastline.
If you want to take a romantic stroll, shop, or dine, head to the Victoria & Alfred Waterfront. For a scenic drive, the best area is Chapman’s Peak Drive. Or, take a Cape of Good Hope tour.
Where to stay: Victoria & Alfred Waterfront, which is near Two Oceans Aquarium, Zeitz Museum of Contemporary Art Africa, and the Victoria Wharf Shopping Centre
When to go: December to February
How to arrive: You’ll fly through Cape Town International Airport (CPT) to reach Cape Town. Head to the city center by shuttle, bus, or private car in around 20 minutes.
Auckland, New Zealand
A beautiful city flanked by two harbors, Auckland is one of the best gay-friendly honeymoon destinations in New Zealand. It’s known as the City of Sails, where you can enjoy great marina views with your significant other.
Beyond its harbor-related charm, Auckland has plenty of natural scenery to offer. It has several island paradises, including Waiheke Island and Great Barrier Island. Additionally, you can wander around the Auckland Botanic Gardens and Wenderholm Regional Park or hike through its volcanic cones, like Mount Eden.
Ponsonby and Freemans Bay are centrally located areas that put you amid trendy cafes and shops — and, of course, a safe and thriving LGBTQ+ scene.
Where to stay: Ponsonby, which is near the Auckland Harbour Bridge and Sky Tower
When to go: December to February
How to arrive: Fly into Auckland Airport. Take a shuttle, bus, train, or private car to the city center. Travel time is around 30 minutes.
Bangkok, Thailand
Though it hasn’t legalized same-sex marriage, Thailand is one of the best gay honeymoon destinations, taking pride in its open and evident LGBTQ+ communities. Modern buildings, delectable cuisine, and rich cultural heritage await you and your partner in this country.
At the center of it all is the capital city of Bangkok, which is also home to a gay street called Silom Soi 4. It’s a hub of gay nightlife and a great place to celebrate your marriage. During the daytime, you can enjoy various cultural experiences, such as visiting temples and indulging in mouthwatering street eats.
If you want a beachside escape while in Thailand, don’t forget to visit Phuket. This is another gay-friendly destination with memorable bars and beach clubs.
Where to stay: Silom, which is near Lumphini Park and Sri Maha Mariamman Temple
When to go: November to April
How to arrive: Your gateway to Bangkok is the Suvarnabhumi Airport. Take the train, rent a car, or use airport shuttles to get to Silom, 30-60 minutes away.
Countries to Avoid As A Same-Sex Couple
Before you choose your honeymoon destination, you must research and be aware of places whose legal landscape is unsuitable for a gay honeymoon.
Some of the countries to avoid are Brunei, Cameroon, Cook Islands, Egypt, Ethiopia, Grenada, Jamaica, Kenya, Kuwait, Malaysia, the Maldives, Mauritius, Morocco, Saint Lucia, Saint Vincent and The Grenadines, Samoa, Solomon Islands, Sri Lanka, Tanzania, Zambia, and Zimbabwe.
Depending on the territory, homosexual and unnatural or indecent acts are punishable by law. The punishments range from fines (anywhere from $5 to $2,000) or imprisonment (two months to over ten years).